Embracing Authenticity and Building a Mental Health Company: Reflecting on 2023 and Stepping into a Thrilling 2024 Journey

Ah, as the curtains draws on the first week of January 2024, I find myself reflecting upon a grand tapestry of experiences and events that have shaped my Affinti+ journey thus far. Twas in the month of April 2023 that I bid farewell to my two-decade tenure in the public sector and set off on the bold and daunting adventure of building my own mental health company.

Oh, the transition from being a cog in the system to a solitary entrepreneur has been quite the rollercoaster! The lack of constant feedback has demanded a renewed wellspring of motivation from within. Yet, despite the exhaustion and exhilaration, this new path has brought me growth and fulfillment beyond measure.

Finding the right connections, has been a riveting and sometimes challenging endeavour. In a spirited exchange with a peer, we came to the clever conclusion that networking requires one to be "likeable, accessible, and friendly." Now, don't get me wrong, being likeable in the normal sense isn't my top priority. As a woman with a cacophony of opinions and indomitable convictions, I simply cannot engage in trivial conversations with folks I find insincere or disagreeable. Instead, I strive to extend kindness, thoughtfulness, and compassion to those who truly captivate me. Gone are the days of conforming to societal expectations that require me to be mild and meek to climb the ladder of success. To be honest I never did that anyway. No, darlings, authenticity is the name of the game! I'll forge my own path and become a shining example of respect, appreciation, and value for all, regardless of their backgrounds. Empty platitudes and shallow gestures simply won't do!

Oh, and one lesson has become abundantly clear on this journey, my tolerance for insincerity has dwindled to a flickering flame. My personal growth has gifted me with the courage to speak out and reject anything that goes against my values. Of course I shall always consider multiple perspectives and at the same time I've raised myself to a higher moral standard, where reciprocity, manners, integrity, fairness, and safety in freedom of expression reign supreme in my decision-making process.

Now, accessibility, poses its own set of challenges. My days are now meticulously organised, with every minute penciled into my diary. This unwavering focus on tasks leaves little room for serendipitous encounters or impromptu chit-chat. But fear not, for I understand the importance of connections and fostering relationships. Ah, I shall strive to strike a balance of friendliness, for I do adore a good chinwag!

Interestingly enough, while naming my new company proved to be an arduous task of epic proportions, securing the perfect office space and selecting furniture turned out to be surprisingly effortless. Ah, the in-between stages of this transformative process of the company required careful deliberation and external support to create an entity that truly resonated with my vision and values. Progressing into 2024, I feel the continuation of this metamorphosis brewing within my soul.

As a clinical psychologist, my passion for mental health, ASD, and ADHD burns brighter than ever, my dears. I am wholeheartedly committed to advancing my blossoming mental health service and blazing trails with innovative approaches that support individuals on their journey towards enhanced well-being. Oh, the challenges that await me are positively thrilling, and I greet them with open arms!

Now, I must admit, my flaws are not merely figments of my imagination. The mischievous spectre of procrastination remains a formidable hurdle on my path to success. However, I possess the unwavering determination to conquer this life long self-sabotaging tendency. Perfection is not my goal, for I understand that mistakes are an essential part of the journey. But discipline is what I shall cultivate to hold myself accountable and achieve my aspirations.

Ah, let me not fail to mention the abundant opportunities 2023 bestowed upon me to give back, connect with colleagues and friends, and make profound contributions to society. Philanthropy has always held a special place in my heart. The joy and satisfaction of giving back and not forgetting the support I received are immeasurable. As I move into 2024, I eagerly anticipate exploring more avenues of giving, becoming a catalyst for positive change, and supporting the lives of those in need.

So, dear readers, as we bid adieu to 2023 and embark upon the unknown terrain of 2024, let us embrace the adventures that unfold before us. Let us face challenges with courage, navigate connections with authenticity, and embrace our flaws with resilience. In the words of the brilliant writer Samuel Beckett, "Ever tried. Ever failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better." And with that indomitable spirit, we shall venture forth into the New Year, ready to make our mark on the world.

But for now, my dears, I wish your own 2024 journey be filled with laughter, love, and a touch of delightful eccentricity. Bye for now!